- The Wonders of Wordly Detachments, really they are not.. But, what are they ?
The meaning of Detachment ( it is called Vairagyam in Sanskrit Language ) is renouncing the world which is quite opposite to the Attachment. The attachment means engrafted from the root (cementing) with the Samsara ( Ahmkara and Mamakara which is “I” and “My”) which can not be abandoned from us births together.
I am and my family, my wife, my children, my wealth, my power, my status my qualification, my beautiness, my assets, my palace etc., every thing is purely attachment in the mind.
Suppose if we have everything what is said above ,will we be really happy in the mundane world ?. If we go deep into the reality of attachment, we can proximately know that there is no happiness, no comfortness, no peace at all except sufferings and sorrowness. For this we can not give any explanation as we are having attachment lives.So we can give so many best examples about the results of attachment which is nothing but hell.. Although knowing this truth we can not come out of from the mouths of wild animals of attachment.
No one said leave this Samsara (wife children, family etc) but live in this world like a water drop on the lotur petal.
If we detache from the attachment truly we can have a supreme bliss for ever. This is more than 100% true. Only great Souls like Adi Sankaracharya, Ramakrishna Paramahamsa, and many others could detach from the Samsara means rebirth.. We believe in the rebirth. Punarapi Jananam Punarapi Maranam ( again birth and again death ... the circle goes on with endless). The Pakruti Maya (Natural Delusion) is so mightier than any thing in this world.
But ... even then we sometimes illusionarly fall into the feelings of detachment for certain time on some occasions.
On three occasions the feelings of detachment from this world happen .
They are called 1) Prasuti Vairagyam , 2) Smasana Vairagyam , 3) Purana Vairagyam.
1) Prasuti Vairagyam . Prasuti means giving birth to a child. Vairagyam means detachment (renouncing).
Every woman after marriage leads the marital life with her husband so happily. She thinks that marital life is iteself a Heaven. But after her pregnancy when 9 months completed, at the time of parturition (labour) in the maternity ward when she suffers a lot with unbearable labour pains, she prays God and thinks she does not want any happy marital life with husband for the child to give birth.But after giving birth to the baby, after few days, she lives with her husband as it is what she was . This is called Prasuti Vairagyam
2) Smasana Vairagyam. Smasana means grave yard.
If we see a dead body or look at the mortal body in the burial ground we just fall into Vairagyam and remain in thought of that one day we will also die and leave this world , then why should we live with all these wicked thoughts and do deceiptful and harmful deeds to others.. he remians in the feelings of detachment for some time. When once he leaves the grave yard we forget and live as it is ... what we were . This is called Smasana Vairagyam.
3) Puran Vairagyam. Purana means Mythological (ancient text )
A well learned scholar teaches about the Reality and Unreality of the world and, mortality and immortality of the life though the characters of the Mythological scriptures. The listeners go to the Temples in the morning and evening and listen to those teachings from him. They can understand and accept the truth of the life. Life is not permanant. Any moment one will die. Life is like a bubble. Its life is so momentary. Like wise we are also temporary as they think and fall into the deep Vairagya Bhava (the feelings of detachment). At that time they memorize about the life’s many hardships, grieves, temporary happiness, and pains. But once when they leave that sacred place, he lives (they live) as it is ... what he was (they were)..
So the most wonderful thing of this life is the man/woman always has those three kinds of Vairagyas which are circumstantially temperary. Are these are not wonders ?.